It is typical for me to chat with Gretch while commuting to or from work a few times a week. Last Friday I was lamenting Mark and I were lacking focus on our
marriage, which is a familiar topic lately. Like any couple with small children, our energy is on them... and this truth has been taking its toll on us. I came to the sad conclusion we had not spent time alone together since our trip to Jamaica in early February. I think we can all agree the nights we spent house hunting while my dad babysat for a few precious hours doesn't really count (for sure since Realtor Angie was with us!)
As I drove home in true frustration and sadness, Gretch saved the day. "Well why don't you just bring the kids here tomorrow?" It was that simple. I needed help and she cooked the plan. "Go home, tell Mark, and bring the kids over whenever your want. They can spend the night."
Drop off Saturday at 4 pm, back at home
after 5 pm where Mark had continued painting in my
absense, got ready in the bathroom with no one grabbing my leg or grasping for my make-up at 5:20 pm while Mark rested for a few minutes, glass of
Chardonnay on the patio at 6 pm, flipped through the Minneapolis St. Paul magazine in peace at 6:15 pm, headed out to dinner at the
Sample Room in NE
Mpls at 7 pm, Mark enjoys a
Mojito and me a cucumber mint
cocktail upon arrival 7:20 pm, head for a drink in NE after our delicious meal where we talk about things besides
Marly and Dean at 10 pm... and there you have it. The
Thomberg's had a much needed date night. Sunday I hopped in the car at 8:15 am, was at a Caribou drive
thru for a Breve at about 8:30, and was pulling into the
Huwe's at about 9:10 (only 10 minutes late).
THANK YOU GRETCH!
In the mean time, here are our DIRTY kiddos at 6 pm on Sunday.

Dean thinks he is very cool in his shades.

Both mom and
Marly are dirty from yard work.
The embarrassing part is we went to the park like this after supper!!!